One of the biggest benefits to dating during divorce is the feeling of confidence and positivity.
If your divorce is dragging on it can feel good to get out and meet new people.
When left up to the court, the judge will make a determination as to which parent should have primary physical and legal custody based on the best interests of the children, and if there is a real or perceived discomfort with the new parter experienced by the children, it is very likely to effect the amount of time each parent and particularly the dating parent is awarded.
If the new partner makes the children feel uncomfortable, whether it has to do with the partner personally or it's related to the children feeling that the partner may be at fault or contributing to the separation and divorce, this is likely to have an effect on custody decisions made by the judge.
When one spouse is dating, the other spouse is likely to be resistant to shared custody agreements as well.
A divorce and the prospect of a new partner replacing them is often too much for a spouse to cope with, and may cause disagreements and unwillingness to come to a compromise with regard to custody arrangements.
Talk to them about the new partner before the introduction.
Make sure that they understand that this person is not replacing their other parent and that they will still have your full attention.
The other spouse, if they are not dating, may develop the idea that the dating spouse was committing adultery even if that idea hadn't surfaced before.
Instead of being sad at home when you children are with the other parent, you can be out having a great new experience on a date.
Dating during divorce is a personal decision, and whether it’s a good idea for you depends on your situation.
Being back on the dating scene can boost your confidence and self esteem and generally be a positive thing in your life during a difficult time.
Going on dates can be fun and keep you from thinking of the more depressing aspects of divorce.