Gay dating and sex

None of us are born instinctively knowing how to be great lovers.

It’s all about learning, experimenting through trial and error, and acquiring experience until we become comfortable, confident, and honed with our lovemaking skills before we reach that pinnacle of Sexual Olympian status.

One of the common complaints I hear from tops in my therapy and coaching practice is they find it boring and annoying when their bottom “just lays there” and “expects me to do all the work.” While for some part of the joy of being a bottom is the passivity inherent in the role, you also play an important part in the experience.

Take advantage and channel your energies into making your top feel like a champion.Monitor his reactions as you increase the speed and depth of your thrusts to ensure he’s feeling pleasure and enjoying the experience before you switch to Energizer Bunny mode to avoid hurting him (since the anus is not as elastic as a vagina).Use lots of lubrication and vary the positions and methods to spice things up and experience more pleasure.Discover gay singles looking for meaningful relationships online on Guardian Soulmates.If you are new to online dating or want to find out more about the online dating scene then check out the Soulmates Blog for great tips and advice.

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